
About a month ago, I got a pedicure. Thought everything went well.
Fast forward to last week. I’m in NYC for annual doctor appointments and the Backspace Agent-Author Seminar. It’s also my birthday week.
I’m catching up with my cousins, reconnecting with Z, hanging with A. Having a fabulous time.
But for one problem. My big toe hurts. I can’t see anything causing the pain, but it’s tender and aching and slightly red.
So I poke around with a Q-tip, trying to find the source of the problem.
Two nights later, the toe has developed a heartbeat and it’s swollen. Uh-oh.
So on Wednesday, my birthday, I go to a walk-in clinic for treatment.
The doctor takes one look at the swollen red toe with a white pus pocket near the surface and tells me it’s too far along for antibiotics alone to work.
We are going to have to lance it.
I tell him I have a conference the next two days.
He says we have to do it. Or the infection could get way worse.
That’s when he jabs 4 needles into my toe to numb it. Before the numbness, it’s searing, burning, screaming-swears painful.
I mention it’s my birthday and he says that pedicurist gave you one hell of a present. Seems that if she had cut my toe nail straight instead of rounding the edges, I would never get the ingrown toe nail which led to the infection and the pus pocket, Paronychia.
When my toe no longer senses pain or touch, he gets out his scalpel and lances the side of my toe. Squeezes out all the pus. Blood and other liquids come out too.
Unfortunately, I’m on aleve for the pain and it looks like he slaughtered a small pig on the table. I try not to look because seeing my own blood makes me want to pass out.
Ofc, there are no nail clippers there. Fortunately, we are in a Duane Reade walk in clinic so I tell him to go grab a pair and I’ll buy them. I want to make sure we deal with this effectively.
He spends roughly half an hour on my foot. Has to call in backup to get out sterilized water and gauze because his gloves are bathed in my blood. Then he cleans up my toe and bandages it. My toe is twice the normal size.
It’s still numb while I give the pharmacy my script for antibiotics and pick up some bandages.
He tells me to take aleve for the pain-when it comes on.
It’s only 1 block back to my A’s apt. I hobble there.
And then the fun begins. The pain injections wear off. My toe throbs and aches. Sharp shooting pain from the tip of my toe into my ankle. Every hour worsens the pain.
A and I scrap plans for a bday dinner in Chinatown and end up at a place 3 blocks from his apartment. It takes me 15 minutes to hobble over there.
It takes a few drinks to make it through dinner.
The pain is unrelenting and unbearable. My brain feels close to shock. It cannot process this type of pain. I become prone to maniacal laughter followed by hysterical crying. Aleve doesn’t touch it.
But I have to go to my conference. So at 6:45 am I wake up and get dressed. Limp to subway. Hobble to conference. And endure criticism while secretly fantasizing about cutting my own toe off. Just to escape the pain.
By the time I get home Thursday, it’s swollen. The big toe, all my other toes, my entire foot, and the ankle. Uh-oh.
I try to sleep with my foot propped up. The next day the swelling comes down a bit but the pain is worse. A lends me his men’s size 11 shoes. I’m a women’s 9.5, but they fit.
I cab to and from conference and keep my foot elevated all day.
My poor father has to drive down to NYC to pick me up, because I’m crippled by this and can’t do the most basic things. Like take the subway and walk to the train platform in Grand Central.
I also had to skip out on a couple panels at the conference to manage the pain. I made sure I attended all the workshops.
This, my friends, is how a bad pedicure can completely derail your life for a week.
I will never let anyone touch my feet again.

























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November 7, 2011 at 11:09 am
berry
Ouch. Be careful blood poison.
November 7, 2011 at 11:45 am
Kourtney Heintz
It’s terrible that such a tiny thing can cause such havoc on the body. It’s super painful. Still can’t walk much. That was my concern too and why I let him lance it. I’m on antibiotics and the toe seems to be healing. Fingers crossed.
April 12, 2012 at 8:43 pm
Aspergers Girls
Ouch! Great descriptions, though.
April 12, 2012 at 8:45 pm
Kourtney Heintz
Thanks! I try to capture a lot of my life experiences here. That toe thing was wickedly painful. Especially without any pain medication.
May 14, 2012 at 1:44 pm
Zen and Genki
Oh my gosh. That is the worst thing EVER!!! I have never had a pedicure for just this reason (I’ve heard so many horror stories!) but my mother almost, almost talked me into one this weekend, “my treat, for Mother’s Day”. I’m so happy I said no!
(Did you ever go back and ream them out where you had it done?)
May 14, 2012 at 4:49 pm
Kourtney Heintz
I’m still dealing with it months later. The nail is growing in and starting to head into the cuticle again. I’m monitoring it but when they cut out a section of your toenail it can grow in again and again. I was pain free from Jan-May but it is acting up again. I got tons of pedicures over the years but now, never again! I think as long as you don’t let them clip or file your toe nails it might be okay, but I’ll never chance it again. I didn’t ever ream them out. I don’t think it was intentional. Also, I don’t think they’d admit it was their fault or be willing to learn from it. So I figured life lesson for me.
May 14, 2012 at 4:54 pm
Zen and Genki
S-h-u-d-d-e-r-!!! And take heart in the fact that I’ll take that life lesson, vicariously, through you! Sending some healing mojo your way
May 15, 2012 at 10:19 am
Kourtney Heintz
Yeah it’s pretty horrible to have problems with your feet. The amount of pain I felt from the ingrown toenail was bad, but nothing like what I felt after he lanced the side of cuticle and cut out half my toe nail. It was like being tortured for days on end. Everytime I put weight on the foot I wanted to scream. So far it’s tender but not re-infected. I may have to go see the podiatrist next week. Ugh.
July 31, 2012 at 8:24 am
nmnygal
I too just had bad pedi. My mom has suggested to soak feet in warm water with a little white vinegar every night which helps with fungus.etc.
August 1, 2012 at 1:06 am
Kourtney Heintz
Sounds like good advice. Unfortunately with an ingrown toenail they can keep growing into the cuticle each time they grow back.
May 16, 2012 at 9:14 pm
Naomi Baltuck
Hi Kourtney, it’s scary how fast these things can develop. Did it heal?
May 16, 2012 at 11:55 pm
Kourtney Heintz
Naomi, it really is. And foot problems totally derail your life. The problem with ingrown toenails is that even when they are extracted they tend to grow back that way. Having some pain in my toe this week. I think it might be starting to grow into the cuticle again. Luckily, I’m good at catching the signs.
Seeing podiatrist on Monday to make sure I nip it in the bud.
September 10, 2012 at 7:01 am
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November 4, 2012 at 10:19 am
Lauryn Doll (@DulceDeLauryn)
Ouch – this is painful to read about. Sorry this happened to you.
November 4, 2012 at 11:18 pm
Kourtney Heintz
Thanks! It’s been an ongoing saga. Still not completely finished. ugh.
December 21, 2012 at 6:08 am
Alex
Ouch, ouch, ouch. But I hear you! I found your blog after searching something on Google along the lines of “Paronychia I’m going to die help kill me”. I got my finger lanced today and the throbbing is relentless and the lancing itself was one of the most painful experiences ever. It’s 4am here in Chicago and I just can’t sleep due to the pain–even with the Vicodin! To think I was just going to ignore it and let it work itself out…I was told that by the looks of it, in a few days it would have spread to my
hand. Anyway, not much to add, except that it’s nice to know I’m not alone, though I would never want another to experience tpain awful pain. Thank you for sharing your story!
December 21, 2012 at 9:38 am
Kourtney Heintz
It was pretty awful. The doctor didn’t give me vicodin. He told me to take Aleve for the pain. The pain was horrific. Especially since I was putting weight on a lanced toe. Worst experience ever in terms of pain. 5 days of unrelenting agony. But it passes. And the good news is you caught it in time.
Sorry you were up at 4am in pain.
I have never gotten a pedicure since then and never will. Not worth the risk. Wishing you lots of healing and much less pain!
Kourtney
December 22, 2012 at 10:22 am
Running from Hell with El
Painful, horrified shiver. I’m a runner and have seen gross toes, but this–this sounds horrible. Shiver. Giggle.
December 22, 2012 at 1:45 pm
Kourtney Heintz
Feet things are pretty horrible. Especially if you can’t stay off them. You never realize how important and how painful your feet can be. I will never ever let anyone pedicure me again.
April 29, 2013 at 5:47 pm
philosophermouseofthehedge
People always make fun of me not wanting a pedicure – but I have a real fear of this happening – you aren’t the only one I’ve heard. Feet are a big issue – broke a toe just before a big conference in some lovely mountains – and I had to go, had to stand and sell the company and their books – and couldn’t wear the right shoes – or go hiking (now that’s the biggest tragedy). You are right – you don’t appreciate your feet until there’s a problem!
Hope it’s better now! (you’ve got to dance now!)
April 29, 2013 at 11:41 pm
Kourtney Heintz
Whenever someone suggests a pedicure to me now, I cringe. It’s really awful. I had to keep getting the nail dug out and then have it grow back in. It was a year of agony and not wearing closed toe shoes. And my toenail still looks bad. Eek–broken toe sounds horrible, especially at a conference. And unable to explore the mountains. Double bad experience. I never realized how important my toe was until it started hurting and I started hobbling.
Toe is 100% painfree now. Dancing is allowed.